Furman University
NCAA DI - FCS • NULL
Date: May 8, 2026
Would Recommend
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To say that playing under Gail has been disappointing would be an understatement. The environment she creates is emotionally exhausting, inconsistent, and damaging to players’ confidence. One day a player can be praised, embraced, and made to feel valued, and the next they are completely torn down without warning. The inconsistency in communication and feedback leaves players constantly anxious, confused, and questioning themselves. There is a clear favoritism problem within the program. Certain players are protected no matter how they perform, while others are criticized relentlessly and blamed for situations that stem from poor coaching decisions. If you are not one of her favorites, you are often ignored entirely unless it is to criticize you. Instead of developing every athlete equally, she creates an environment where players feel disposable and isolated. What makes it worse is the feeling that loyalty and outside relationships matter more than actual performance or effort. Some players are treated as though their value to the program extends beyond the field, while others struggle to receive even basic support and respect. Watching teammates go without proper care while others are prioritized sends a message that not everyone matters equally. The damage goes far beyond lacrosse. Constantly being torn down, overlooked, and made to feel unwanted affects players mentally and emotionally. A college athletic experience is supposed to help athletes grow in confidence, discipline, and character, but under this environment many players leave feeling defeated instead. If I could give one piece of advice to any recruit considering this program, it would be to seriously think twice before putting your trust, mental health, and college experience in the hands of someone who leads this way.